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Last Login: May 12, 2013
Hi there everyone, i have been here before in the past for awhile but didn't have any luck that time around so i have decided to give this another go to see what i may find this time around. Let me just first say that my first name is Julie and I was born in June, which would make my zodiac sign as Cancer. I am 38 yrs old and I currently reside in Pennsylvania where i also was born and grew up. I am divorced and have no children, although i may consider having one if i am healthy enough and if i know my partner will be sticking with me through thick and thin, although i also know that if i do not have a child that it’s not the end of the world..
I must say i am very shy when first getting to know someone, but it usually doesn't last long. I was born with a birth defect of the spine known as Spinia Bifida (commonly called open back), which was operated on and closed at birth.) In my case it has resulted in a form of Spina Bifida called myelomeningocele, and due to my disability i deal with some other health issues as well. As a result of my disability i get around in a wheelchair when doing my daily activities. For the type of disability that i have i am extremely lucky and blessed for as healthy as i am. I am quite capable of doing many things that others may do; i just may do it a little differently then most.
I know a lot of people may think of my disability as a drawl back and they may see me as someone they wouldn't take a second look at but my disability is only part of me but doesn't define me. When it comes to who i am, i am a very down to earth person who is also very loyal, honest, compassionate, caring, passionate, and trust-worthy, who loves to laugh and have fun when possible.
I am a mature woman that is very open minded and understanding, who is also intelligent and fun loving. I am also romantic at heart. When i am in a relationship, i tend to put everything that i am and that i have into making that relationship work and last. I am here looking to find that special Someone to spend as much quality time with as possible and hopefully settle down with someday down the road.
I'm looking for someone who can look past the physical part of my disability and see me for the person i really am deep inside! Basically i am looking for my Soul-Mate here. Someone who can look past my flaws and love me for me and accept me for the person i am. I am looking for someone who can be my, best friend, lover, companion, confidant, teacher, and maybe down the road my husband. That Person would be No 1 in my life and hopefully would make me No 1 in His life as well.
Communication is extremely important to me on a daily basis so I wish for open and honest communication between Him and I daily, no matter whether it is 5 minutes or 5 hours. Going out to dinner or just having a quiet evening at home with my Man cuddling and watching a movie with each other is also part of who I am and what I like.
|Location||Alexandria, PA, USA|
|Height||4' 7" (139 cm)|
|Build||I should maybe lose a few|
|About Children||I do not have children, but would like to|
|Religion||I'm not affiliated with any religion|
|Field of Work||none|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Self-description||I am very shy at first but i am also a fun-loving, trust-worthy, passionate and loyal Person.|
|Music||Classic Rock, Country/Western, Gospel, Hip Hop, Jazz, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Pop/Top 40, Rap, Reggae, Religious Music, Rock n Roll, Soft Rock, Soul/Rhythm and Blues, Techno/Rave/Jungle|
|Favorite bands and musicians||Anyone who plays a good beat and touches my heart with their songs|
|Movie||Action/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Mystery, Romance, Suspense/Thriller, Western|
|Favorite movies and actors||Demi Moore, Jenniffer Lopez, Carl Weathers, Sly Stallone|
|Favorite TV shows||SCI Miami, SCI New York, Las Vegas, Cold Case, NCIS, Dog The Bounty Hunter, Law & Order, L& O SVU|
|Outdoor activity||Horseback riding, Photography, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing|
|Indoor activity||Charity/Volunteering, Collecting, Computers, Games, Movies/TV, Music, Reading, Restaurants|
|My idea of a great trip||Anything that involves going out of my home town|
|Food||American, Barbeque, Chinese, Fast food, German, Italian, Japanese, Mexican, Seafood, Southwestern, Spanish, Vegetarian/Vegan|
|Favorite restaurants||Sizzler, Chinese Restraunts, Long John Silver, Red Lobster|
|Schools attended||High School, Vo-tech, College -Technical School|
|Timeliness||I am usually early|
|As for fashion||I dress to be comfortable|
|Age||Between 35 and 50 years old|
|Height||Between 5' 0" (152 cm) and 7' 6" (228 cm)|
|Body Type||Slender, Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular|
|Education||High School, Technical School|
|Religion||Christian, I'm not affiliated with any religion, I'm not religious, Other|
Going out to dinner and maybe a movie or both and just have fun talking with the Man i am with and get to know one another.
I feel i am someone worth getting to know and having someone get to know me as well, because i am just as human as the next person, but most of all i am WORTH THE GAMBLE!! If You would like to connect just to talk or make a new friend or more please let me know. Friends are always a good start to any kind of relationship in my book. If i have the time to talk i will gladly talk, but if i say i don't have time to chat right away please try to catch me at a later time. Just because i may not be able to chat right away that doesn't mean i don't want to chat with You at all, it just means i may be occupied with other things to be able to chat at that particular time, so please keep trying if You are interested.
Past relationships have taught me to NOT rush into any relationship without getting to know each other as friends first and foremost. They have also taught me to not settle for someone just because i am lonely or that i can't have whom i really wish to be with because i can because i am just as capable of loving someone as the next person.
Some of the most important things in my life are Family and Friends.
My perfect day would be spending it with my soul-mate whatever we are doing as long as we are together and happy.
Please don't judge a book by it's cover because You could be missing out on a great person, possibly Your soul-mate.