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Last Login: May 05, 2013
Hello gentlemen, my name is Brenda. I am a 58 year old widow who has been alone for over 4 years now. I believe that I am ready to date again and would like to find someone who I can get along with and who shares the same core values and beliefs as I do.
I was married to a wonderful tall strong black man for 12 years. I watched him waste away from lung cancer, was with him through all of his cancer treatments and watched him take his final breath and go home to be with the Lord. I loved him with all of my heart and don't know if there is anyone out there who will be my soul mate as he was, but I am at least willing to see.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE READ THE FOLLOWING VERY CAREFULLY AS THIS IS WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR... NO EXCEPTIONS. PERHAPS I AM TOO PICKY, BUT IT IS BETTER TO BE ALONE THAN TO BE WITH SOMEONE THAT I HAVE TO ARGUE AND DISAGREE WITH ALL THE TIME
I am a POLITICALLY CONSERVATIVE WOMAN I am looking for a politically conservative black male or man of color for dating and possibly marriage.
If your politics are not conservative, then pass me by. If you don't know what conservative means, pass me by. My core beliefs are what I am and I don't intent to change those beliefs or who I am. I would respect you and what you are looking for, so please do the same for me. I don't want someone to change. I want someone who has the same core beliefs as I do so that we may enjoy activities together without fighting and trying to win each other over to their side.
I am a Christian woman who loves the Lord, so I am not looking for any booty calls or one night stands. If that's what you are on this site for, keep on steppin. If we click and date, I will not be a cheater and I will not play games with you. I won't play games with you as a friend either. If you are my friend, then you are my friend.
I am a little overweight, probably about 30 pounds, but try to do my best to look good and do the best with how I am.
|Location||Marysville, OH, USA|
|Height||5' 0" (152 cm)|
|Build||I should maybe lose a few|
|About Children||I have children and do NOT want more|
|Field of Work||imaging specialist|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Music||Blues, Contemporary, Country/Western, Jazz, Religious Music, Soft Rock|
|Movie||Comedy, Drama, Mystery, Romance, Suspense/Thriller|
|Outdoor activity||Birdwatching, Traveling/Sightseeing|
|Indoor activity||Computers, Movies/TV, Politics, Reading, Restaurants, Shopping|
|My idea of a great trip||Anywhere as long as there is no snow and i am with someone who wants to enjoy new sights!|
|Food||American, Barbeque, Chinese, Fast food, Italian, Mexican, Seafood|
|Favorite restaurants||Olive Garden, Chipotle, Ruby Tuesday's, Applebee's, Red Lobster, Any Chinese Restaurant|
|Schools attended||Fairbanks High Scbool, Franklin University|
|Timeliness||I am usually early|
|As for fashion||I don't need advice!|
|Age||Between 50 and 65 years old|
|Distance||Within 300 miles of Marysville, OH, USA|
|Height||Between 6' 0" (182 cm) and 6' 4" (193 cm)|
|Relationship Status||Divorced, Widowed|
|Religion||Born Again, Christian, Interdenominational, Lutheran, Methodist, Protestant|
|Ethnicity||Black / African descent, Caribbean, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Native American|
I would like to go to a quiet restaurant or coffee shop where we could talk and get to know each other. Possibly we could go window shopping or just enjoy some time somewhere quiet enough to talk
You should get to know me because I am a tender hearted, loving person who will have your back. If you are my friend, then that is solid, as long as you don't lie to me or play me for stupid. If we meet and date and don't click, that doesn't mean we can't still be friends.
Past relationships have taught me to be more open to people's feelings, more willing to help people who are hurting. I regret not always being a person who can just have fun with my significant other without always having to be working on the relationship. While I understand that relationships are work, I also now see that they should sometimes just be about fun and being with the one you love;
that being on the same page and having similar views are very important in a relationship. Some differences are nice, but your core beliefs and passions should be the same, IMHO
God as a real, living presence in my life, my family, and my friends.
AGAIN, I AM LOOKING FOR A CHRISTIAN CONSERVATIVE BLACK MAN WHO LOVES GOD FIRST AND THEN ME AND THIS GREAT COUNTRY
Not trying to be harsh, just me trying to find the right you!!!
sleeping in late, having a good cup of coffee and curling up on the couch with the man I love to watch movies all day.
I am drama free, drug free and pretty laid back and quiet, but fun when you get to know me.