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Last Login: Jun 16, 2013
I would love to have a commited African American man in my life as I believe that you are all beautiful. I am a dedicated single mother of 4 who wants to believe that there is some chilvary left in the world. I am a successful financially independant woman who has accomplished many of my goals and now I would like to share my life with someone who is also on the same page. I need someone who is willing to share their world with me. I want someone to sit on the couch with at the end of the night with a glass of wine and say "How was your day?" I am a very self assured sexy sensual woman who has if you want to say "finally came into herself" Anyone who knows themself will know what I am talking about. I want to have someone in my life that after two years that when we are apart..the ache is tremendous for each other and to sit and touch each other faces is sensual enough to turn you on. I am serious about finding my soul mate and if you are not willing to put anything and everything into this.. then carry on. I am strong woman and I stand up for my goals and what I believe in. I need someone in my world who wants to challenge me on all levels in life....intellectually, physically, emotionally. If you think you are the one then BRING IT ON!
Some thoughts to ponder....
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living..
I want to know what you ache for..
And if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are..
I want to know if you wil risk looking like a fool for love..
For your dream...for the adventure of being alive!
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow..
If you have been opened by life's betrayals or have been shrivelled.. And closed from the fear of further pain.
I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own..
Without moving to hide it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own..
If you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you..
To the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful..
Without being realistic, without remembering the limitations..
Of being human.
It doesn't interest me who you know..
Or how you came to be here..
I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me..
And not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied..
I want to know what sustains you..
From the inside..when all else falls away..
I want to know if you can see beauty..
Even when it is not pretty, everyday..
And if you can source your own life from its presence!"
|Location||Richmond, British Columbia, Canada|
|Height||5' 4" (162 cm)|
|About Children||I have children and do NOT want more|
|Field of Work||Helicopter pilot|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Music||Classical, Classic Rock, Dance/Disco, Hip Hop, Movie Soundtracks, Pop/Top 40, Reggae, Soul/Rhythm and Blues|
|Outdoor activity||Automobiles/Motorcycles, Running, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Sports/Athletics, Traveling/Sightseeing|
|Indoor activity||Games, Martial Arts, Movies/TV, Opera/Theater, Reading, Restaurants, Shopping|
|Food||American, Cajun/Southern, Chinese, European, Greek, Indian, Japanese, Mediterranean, Mexican, Seafood, Spanish, Thai, Vegetarian/Vegan, Vietnamese|
|Timeliness||I am usually a little late|
|As for fashion||I'm a somewhat fashionable person|
|Age||Between 40 and 55 years old|
|Height||Between 5' 10" (177 cm) and 6' 5" (195 cm)|