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Introduction

I'm forty-four, twice-divorced, and the mother of twin girls who are now eighteen. I work in the healthcare industry, handling insurance issues, billing, collections, and customer service. I have an associate's degree in business administration and a bachelor's degree in psychology. I am a BBW and a practicing Wiccan. I am intelligent and a bit shy, but when you get to know me, you'll find that I am funny, sarcastic, extremely liberal, and fairly laid back most of the time. I won't lie. I'm a woman, so I am occasionally moody, but I think that's more a human trait than a female trait. I am independent, stubborn, and a loyal friend, but I won't fail to tell you if I think you're wrong. I believe honesty and trust are the cornerstones of any viable relationship.

I'm looking for a long-term, committed relationship (after getting to know one another first, of course). I would like to be someone's queen, not just a dalliance or consolation prize. I am looking for a mature man who is intelligent, witty, kind, sincere, honest, loyal, and genuinely wants to be in a relationship.

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Basic Information

Gender	Female
Location	Blowing Rock, NC, USA
Age	44

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About Me

Height	5' 7" (170 cm)
Build	Full-figured
Hair	Auburn
Eyes	Blue
Relationship Status	Divorced
About Children	I have children and do NOT want more
Children	2
Children home	1
Smoking	Frequently
Drinking	Rarely
Religion	Pagan/Wiccan/Umbanda
Education	Bachelor's degree
Field of Work	Healthcare
Ethnicity	Caucasian / White
Languages Spoken	English
Originally From	USA

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Fun Facts

Self-description	Wiccan BBW with adult children, looking for long-term companionship.
Music	Blues, Classical, Classic Rock, Heavy Metal, Oldies, Pop/Top 40, Punk, Rock n Roll, Soul/Rhythm and Blues
Favorite bands and musicians	Mozart, Evanescence, Fleetwood Mac, Elton John, The Beatles
Movie	Action/Adventure, Comedy, Drama, Foreign Films, Horror, Mystery, Romance, Science Fiction, Suspense/Thriller
Favorite movies and actors	Anything with John Cusack, 50 First Dates, P.S. I Love You, Under the Tuscan Sun
Favorite TV shows	TrueBlood, Game of Thrones, Weeds, Breaking Bad, British TV
Outdoor activity	Birdwatching, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Photography, Sailing, Traveling/Sightseeing
Indoor activity	Art, Computers, Cooking/Culinary arts, Movies/TV, Music, Reading, Restaurants
My idea of a great trip	is hopping in the car, picking a direction, and just discovering what is out there.
Food	American, Barbeque, Chinese, French, Italian, Mexican, Seafood
Favorite restaurants	Olive Garden, Outback Steakhouse
Politics	Liberal
Schools attended	Berea College, CCC&TI
Timeliness	I am usually early
As for fashion	I dress to be comfortable

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Match Preferences

Age	Between 39 and 52 years old
Distance	Within 100 miles of Blowing Rock, NC, USA
Height	Between 5' 11" (180 cm) and 6' 7" (200 cm)
Body Type	Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular, Full-figured
Education	High School, Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Bachelor's degree, Master's degree, Doctoral degree
Relationship Status	Single - never been married, Divorced, Widowed
Ethnicity	Black / African descent, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Native American
Smoking	On occasion, Frequently, Whenever I can
Drinking	Never, Rarely, On occasion

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Essays

What would you like to do on a first date?
Meet for coffee, go for a walk by the lake, perhaps a drive or picnic. Something low-key to enable conversation.
Why you should get to know me:
I'm a good person, but I'm no one's fool. If you are the one for me, I will cherish you completely, but I will also challenge you, inspire you, fight for you, and expect the very best you possible. Even if you aren't THE ONE, if I like you and come to care about you, I will be a loyal friend who never lets you give up on yourself.
What have past relationships taught you?
I am stronger than I ever imagined. I am fiercely independent, determined, and far more capable than I originally gave myself credit for being. I am a good person, and I deserve someone who loves me just as I am, quirks and all. I can make it on my own, and I do not need a man to complete my life, but rather I want a man with whom to share life.
Describe some of the most important things in your life:
My daughters, my friends, books, music, really good coffee, and nature.
Describe your perfect day:
Waking up with no alarm, enjoying a peaceful cup of coffee while watching the sun rise, and having someone with whom to share a day of leisure.
One final thing I'd like to mention...
I've dated a great deal since my last divorce, and I've learned a lot about what I do not want. I do not want someone who is chronically unemployed, has severe health issues, is still living with his parents, does not have his own car and income, and/or cannot remain faithful to one woman. I also do not want a man who only views women as trophies or notches on his bedpost. Sexual compatibility is important, yes, but I am not looking to be anyone's conquest. I want more from a man than that.