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Last Login: Sep 03, 2012
I'm forty-four, twice-divorced, and the mother of twin girls who are now eighteen. I work in the healthcare industry, handling insurance issues, billing, collections, and customer service. I have an associate's degree in business administration and a bachelor's degree in psychology. I am a BBW and a practicing Wiccan. I am intelligent and a bit shy, but when you get to know me, you'll find that I am funny, sarcastic, extremely liberal, and fairly laid back most of the time. I won't lie. I'm a woman, so I am occasionally moody, but I think that's more a human trait than a female trait. I am independent, stubborn, and a loyal friend, but I won't fail to tell you if I think you're wrong. I believe honesty and trust are the cornerstones of any viable relationship.
I'm looking for a long-term, committed relationship (after getting to know one another first, of course). I would like to be someone's queen, not just a dalliance or consolation prize. I am looking for a mature man who is intelligent, witty, kind, sincere, honest, loyal, and genuinely wants to be in a relationship.
|Location||Blowing Rock, NC, USA|
|Height||5' 7" (170 cm)|
|About Children||I have children and do NOT want more|
|Field of Work||Healthcare|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Self-description||Wiccan BBW with adult children, looking for long-term companionship.|
|Music||Blues, Classical, Classic Rock, Heavy Metal, Oldies, Pop/Top 40, Punk, Rock n Roll, Soul/Rhythm and Blues|
|Favorite bands and musicians||Mozart, Evanescence, Fleetwood Mac, Elton John, The Beatles|
|Movie||Action/Adventure, Comedy, Drama, Foreign Films, Horror, Mystery, Romance, Science Fiction, Suspense/Thriller|
|Favorite movies and actors||Anything with John Cusack, 50 First Dates, P.S. I Love You, Under the Tuscan Sun|
|Favorite TV shows||TrueBlood, Game of Thrones, Weeds, Breaking Bad, British TV|
|Outdoor activity||Birdwatching, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Photography, Sailing, Traveling/Sightseeing|
|Indoor activity||Art, Computers, Cooking/Culinary arts, Movies/TV, Music, Reading, Restaurants|
|My idea of a great trip||is hopping in the car, picking a direction, and just discovering what is out there.|
|Food||American, Barbeque, Chinese, French, Italian, Mexican, Seafood|
|Favorite restaurants||Olive Garden, Outback Steakhouse|
|Schools attended||Berea College, CCC&TI|
|Timeliness||I am usually early|
|As for fashion||I dress to be comfortable|
|Age||Between 39 and 52 years old|
|Distance||Within 100 miles of Blowing Rock, NC, USA|
|Height||Between 5' 11" (180 cm) and 6' 7" (200 cm)|
|Body Type||Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular, Full-figured|
|Education||High School, Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, Bachelor's degree, Master's degree, Doctoral degree|
|Relationship Status||Single - never been married, Divorced, Widowed|
|Ethnicity||Black / African descent, Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Native American|
|Smoking||On occasion, Frequently, Whenever I can|
|Drinking||Never, Rarely, On occasion|
Meet for coffee, go for a walk by the lake, perhaps a drive or picnic. Something low-key to enable conversation.
I'm a good person, but I'm no one's fool. If you are the one for me, I will cherish you completely, but I will also challenge you, inspire you, fight for you, and expect the very best you possible. Even if you aren't THE ONE, if I like you and come to care about you, I will be a loyal friend who never lets you give up on yourself.
I am stronger than I ever imagined. I am fiercely independent, determined, and far more capable than I originally gave myself credit for being. I am a good person, and I deserve someone who loves me just as I am, quirks and all. I can make it on my own, and I do not need a man to complete my life, but rather I want a man with whom to share life.
My daughters, my friends, books, music, really good coffee, and nature.
Waking up with no alarm, enjoying a peaceful cup of coffee while watching the sun rise, and having someone with whom to share a day of leisure.
I've dated a great deal since my last divorce, and I've learned a lot about what I do not want. I do not want someone who is chronically unemployed, has severe health issues, is still living with his parents, does not have his own car and income, and/or cannot remain faithful to one woman. I also do not want a man who only views women as trophies or notches on his bedpost. Sexual compatibility is important, yes, but I am not looking to be anyone's conquest. I want more from a man than that.