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Come strong or don't come at all! My name is not Ken and I'm sure yours is not Barbie! If you wanna play, go somewhere else! Originally, from the Midwest (NW Indiana/Chicago area).......6'6, an athletic 245lbs, ageless.......Youth (faith-based) Life Coach, Teacher, Author, Father, Man-of-God, Friend......I work out 3 times a week, vicious on the basketball court (wanna try me?). Golf swing is terrible right now, but it will get betta......Can play John Madden all day......Movies, chillin', working out, hangin' wit peeps, cartoons (a big, big kid at heart), are a few pleasures.......I hit up Starbucks, gotta get the latte in......A father of 2 kids (daughter 23 and son 22).......I like to laugh, so many people take life soooooo seriously that they miss out on what life has to offer.......Since I have a ministry, things can be crazy, but all things can be worked out!
Youth (faith-based) Life Coach of P.L.A.Y.M.A.K.E.R.S. Ministries International, a God-call (ages 12 - 22) globally. Moreover, a B.S. degree in Accounting from Purdue University!
Pursuit of Him in prayer.......Diligent in the Word of God seeking His wisdom.......It's not about religion or church, though those things are fine and necessary, it is about a relationship with Jesus Christ. Am I religious? No, but if u r gonna be of the faith, be like Nike and "Just Do It!" Christianity is not a fallback/crutch for weak people who cannot cope, but it is a lifestyle for those whose heart God has touched to show who He is to the world in simply one word, Love!
'11was my year to sow and water, 2012 is the year of new beginnings, THE year to receive a great, great harvest, and now 2013 is my Divine Completion Time......Keep it Real! Don't talk about it, be about it! Ball wit me! I'm outty! Anything else, u r gonna have to ask!
People who are walking in their God-given purpose/destiny and passion about Christ and what they are called to do. Friends! People who like to have fun, hang-out. People who can be real! No whiners! We all have had bad things to deal with in life! Get Healed! Get Right! Get Over It! Get It Done! Move Forward! "If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten! It's about Jesus! Holla at ya boy! As far as children are concerned, I have 2, so if I had more great, if not great! :-)
|Location||Phoenix, AZ, USA|
|Height||6' 6" (198 cm)|
|About Children||I have children and do NOT want more|
|Field of Work||Youth Evangelist, Mentor, & Entrepreneur|
|Ethnicity||Black / African descent|
|Self-description||Just a Balla!|
|Music||Gospel, Hip Hop, Jazz, Movie Soundtracks, Rap, Religious Music|
|Favorite bands and musicians||Kirk Franklin, Tye Tribbett....|
|Movie||Action/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Drama, Mystery, Romance, Science Fiction, Suspense/Thriller|
|Favorite movies and actors||Incredible Hulk, Batman, The Notebook (yea I said it)|
|Favorite TV shows||CSI: Miami, Bionic Woman, Shark, 24|
|Outdoor activity||Automobiles/Motorcycles, Basketball, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Golf, Horseback riding, Sailing, Sports/Athletics, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing|
|Indoor activity||Games, Martial Arts, Movies/TV, Music, Sports, Weightlifting|
|My idea of a great trip||Australia! Australia! Australia!|
|Food||Chinese, French, Italian, Mexican, Seafood|
|Favorite restaurants||Outback Steakhouse, Starbucks (does that count? lol)|
|Schools attended||Purdue University|
|Timeliness||I am usually early|
|As for fashion||I'm a very trendy person|
|Age||Between 30 and 45 years old|
|Distance||Within 100 miles of Phoenix, AZ, USA|
|Height||Between 5' 2" (157 cm) and 6' 2" (187 cm)|
|Body Type||Slender, Washboard, Athletic|
|Education||Associate degree, Professional degree, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree|
|Relationship Status||Single - never been married, Divorced, Widowed|
|Religion||Born Again, Christian, Jewish, Protestant|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
I think dating has gotten just too crazy and too scandalous! My thoughts are more on courtship. What's the difference? I think when u date, it's more about having fun and hanging out and whatever happens. With courtship, there's a goal of marriage and seeking to know a person's heart, personality, and life; a focus on intimacy with that person rather than trying to sex the person, which always seems to be the next level to go in a relationship. Can u wait till marriage to have sex because that's where my head is?
A first date could be dinner and a movie......It could be having coffee at Starbucks.......It could be going to a concert (tho that would be at the bottom).....I think a first date needs to be a place/situation that breathes a "getting-to-know" intimacy so we can communicate and learn about each other. That knowledge won't waste either of our time!
I am first and foremost a man-of-God. I've been involved in youth ministry for over 12 years and I have had my own ministry for that long. I also teach in a high school! Youth is a God given passion as well as my walk with God that I won't let anyone tear apart. That relationship, that intimacy with God is what makes me who I am. I'm an old fashioned guy who believes in romance (and not the kind just to hit the "skins") and the trueness of a connection at eye contact which truly comes from the Spirit of God. Passion! Personality! Those are 2 keys in what I am looking for.
I don't have any regrets! We should all learn from our mistakes as well as those of others.
God! My children! Family! Youth ministry! Having Fun! Learning!
A day of golf/basketball! A day with my kids! A day hanging out with a great lady! A day in worship and prayer with God! or A combination of all the above!
I am who I am! I will be honest and I will step correctly, if those things are tough for you, my teenagers would say, "Kick Rocks!" :-) LOL!