Welcome to Interracial Singles

Most peple like to just meet and greet for a couple of drinks or a cup of coffee. Me? I'd prefer a date with some interaction like mini golf, play pool, bowling, etc....something active....So we can talk and not feel so awkward.

If there is chemistry, then the date will most like have a follow up, but if there is none, then we can still have some laughs and call it day....

Why should you get to know me? Because even if we do not make a couple, at least you will gain an honest & trustworthy friend, no BS from me. I am VERY ambitious and VERY determined (to reach my goals), very active, modest, spontaneous, open-minded, have good sense of humour. My cup is always half-full and not half-empty. I know exactly where I am going in life, would be better if I had a significant other to enjoy it all with! I am looking for a partner, but want to take it slow. He has a gsoh, intelligent, similar interests, good communicator, and good listener. There are more things that I could add, but my better half could be the complete opposite of what I have written here. Basically it all boils down to chemistry, if the sparks start flying, then we've found each other!

I've learned too much to put here, I can say that much. But the most important lessons I've learned are:

Communication and Compromise are key, everything in life is a risk; you gotta take the gamble. Love changes, grows, and even rebirths itself over yrs. How to accept without exception, and give without expectation. I know that there are still good men out there.

DON'T jump into sex so fast; take time to know the other person first so that you have things in common other than sex and so that you don't risk getting dumped for being too easy, or insulting your partner into thinking that sex is all you are interested in. Also, be kind to yourself; never sacrifice your own needs for your partner, although you DO have to compromise sometimes. In addition, no matter how close the two of you are, do a few things independent of each other so that you do not get into a rut, and you will have interesting things to talk about. Also, never assume that you know what the other person is thinking. When a dispute arises, try to consider the other person's point of view as well as your own. When angry, count to ten and think about what you want to say instead of just blurting out the first thing that comes to your mind; you may regret it later. If you have a stable relationship, don't try to TRADE UP to someone younger, cuter, richer, etc. The excitement and newness in any relationship eventually settles down, and then real secure love develops. Unfortunately, some people take this as a sign that the spark has died, and they go out looking for someone else for excitement. This may be one of the reasons why many people fall for gorgeous b*tches or handsome badboys; the unpredictability keeps the excitement going. This is definitely not healthy nor realistic love. Some people grow out of it, or wisen up after being burned too many times, but some people repeat this pattern over and over. Be thankful for what you have, and give as well as take in order to help keep a harmonious relationship going!

Wake-up (naturally) to clear blue skies and the sound of bird song on a warm summers day. A light breakfast, followed by a long leisurely walk by the sea. Lunch beside a waterfall with a pint of good traditional ale, do something exciting/different, like maybe getting on the Blue & Gold and sail around the Bay. Late dinner with a scenic view of the setting sun!