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Introduction

After at semi-brief hiatus, I'd like to at least check with my IR friends.

Ok here goes. I’m not sure if I’m Mr. Right, at this moment or even if I’ll ever be. I’m not rich so I can’t spoil anyone with material gifts on a daily basis. I’m only maybe “average at best” in terms of looks, so you wouldn’t necessarily turn your head if you saw me walking down the street. Additionally, I am not a liar, cheat, womanizer, or “player.” I know but one way to do things and that is completely and thoroughly. I know how to relax and let things flow, but I can be very serious and responsible. I have known complete and unconditional love in my life before and I’m hoping it may happen again. I am trying this one last time, so wish me luck. 

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Basic Information

GenderMale
LocationChico, CA, USA
Age48

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About Me

Height6' 2" (187 cm)
BuildAthletic
HairBlack
EyesBlack
Relationship StatusWidowed
Children0
Children home0
SmokingNever
DrinkingOn occasion
ReligionChristian
EducationDoctoral degree
Field of WorkHigher Education
EthnicityBlack / African descent
Languages SpokenEnglish, Portuguese
Originally FromUSA

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Fun Facts

MusicJazz
MovieDocumentary
PoliticsOpen Minded
TimelinessI am usually on time
As for fashionI don't need advice!

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Match Preferences

AgeBetween 28 and 50 years old
DistanceAny
HeightBetween 5' 0" (152 cm) and 6' 0" (182 cm)
Body TypeSlender, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few
EducationHigh School, Associate degree, Bachelor's degree
Relationship StatusAny
ReligionBahai, Baptist, Born Again, Catholic, Christian, Confucian, Interdenominational, Hindu, Jewish, Lutheran, Methodist, Mormon/Latter-day Saint, Presbyterian, Protestant, Unitarian Universalist, I'm not affiliated with any religion
EthnicityAny
SmokingNever
DrinkingOn occasion

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Essays

What would you like to do on a first date?

First date? I'm afraid I'm woefully out of practice here, but something casual, "lite", and mutually enjoyable would be a good start.

Why you should get to know me:

I have a fantastic sense of humor and a very broad appreciation for many things (music, activities, cultures, and people). What am I like? I'm intelligent, sensitive, perceptive (some even call me aloof), humorous (once you get to know me), and honest. If you ask me something, be prepared to hear the answer (if you ask me “does my butt look big in this?” And I think it does, I'll say "yes."). I have formal education, but I've retained my “street sense” and I am very skilled at knowing when to use which. I do not have answers to all of life's questions and to be honest, I ponder such questions a whole lot less now than I used to. I have just enough "jerk" in me to let it be known to those who may consider taking advantage of me and those I love, it won't be easy.

What have past relationships taught you?

The critical importance of communication. The williness to be flexible and open minded.

I struggle with those mired in "indecision" and tend to "click" with those who know what they want and will communicate that to me. I have enough mischief left in me to keep things interesting, but really try to avoid crossing the proverbial "line."

Describe some of the most important things in your life:

Conmmunication. Someone once told me "find someone you can talk to, because when you grow old that will be something you will always have.."

Describe your perfect day:

A day in which I make someone else's day at least a little bit better. A day that begins with a smile, ends with a smile.

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I'm a jock! No, I don't mean the type that will vegetate in front of the TV (although I enjoy watching football). I am a participant, meaning I like to get-into-the game. I like to play golf, road cycle, fly fish, x-country ski, and even snowboarding (I'm a newbie at that one).

I enjoy traveling to outlying places as well as up scale hotels. I speak two languages, English and Portuguese (four if you count boardroom speak and jive).


"La Vie en Rose!"