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Last Login: May 21, 2013
After at semi-brief hiatus, I'd like to at least check with my IR friends.
Ok here goes. I’m not sure if I’m Mr. Right, at this moment or even if I’ll ever be. I’m not rich so I can’t spoil anyone with material gifts on a daily basis. I’m only maybe “average at best” in terms of looks, so you wouldn’t necessarily turn your head if you saw me walking down the street. Additionally, I am not a liar, cheat, womanizer, or “player.” I know but one way to do things and that is completely and thoroughly. I know how to relax and let things flow, but I can be very serious and responsible. I have known complete and unconditional love in my life before and I’m hoping it may happen again. I am trying this one last time, so wish me luck.
|Location||Chico, CA, USA|
|Height||6' 2" (187 cm)|
|Field of Work||Higher Education|
|Ethnicity||Black / African descent|
|Languages Spoken||English, Portuguese|
|Timeliness||I am usually on time|
|As for fashion||I don't need advice!|
|Age||Between 28 and 50 years old|
|Height||Between 5' 0" (152 cm) and 6' 0" (182 cm)|
|Body Type||Slender, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few|
|Education||High School, Associate degree, Bachelor's degree|
|Religion||Bahai, Baptist, Born Again, Catholic, Christian, Confucian, Interdenominational, Hindu, Jewish, Lutheran, Methodist, Mormon/Latter-day Saint, Presbyterian, Protestant, Unitarian Universalist, I'm not affiliated with any religion|
First date? I'm afraid I'm woefully out of practice here, but something casual, "lite", and mutually enjoyable would be a good start.
I have a fantastic sense of humor and a very broad appreciation for many things (music, activities, cultures, and people). What am I like? I'm intelligent, sensitive, perceptive (some even call me aloof), humorous (once you get to know me), and honest. If you ask me something, be prepared to hear the answer (if you ask me “does my butt look big in this?” And I think it does, I'll say "yes."). I have formal education, but I've retained my “street sense” and I am very skilled at knowing when to use which. I do not have answers to all of life's questions and to be honest, I ponder such questions a whole lot less now than I used to. I have just enough "jerk" in me to let it be known to those who may consider taking advantage of me and those I love, it won't be easy.
The critical importance of communication. The williness to be flexible and open minded.
I struggle with those mired in "indecision" and tend to "click" with those who know what they want and will communicate that to me. I have enough mischief left in me to keep things interesting, but really try to avoid crossing the proverbial "line."
Conmmunication. Someone once told me "find someone you can talk to, because when you grow old that will be something you will always have.."
A day in which I make someone else's day at least a little bit better. A day that begins with a smile, ends with a smile.
I'm a jock! No, I don't mean the type that will vegetate in front of the TV (although I enjoy watching football). I am a participant, meaning I like to get-into-the game. I like to play golf, road cycle, fly fish, x-country ski, and even snowboarding (I'm a newbie at that one).
I enjoy traveling to outlying places as well as up scale hotels. I speak two languages, English and Portuguese (four if you count boardroom speak and jive).
"La Vie en Rose!"