I am here to let everyone on this site know to stay encouraged. I have been on this site less than a month and I met my match, his name is David (Hardsigmaman). We were matched 100% and both of our core colors were blue. I don't know about the other women, but I know as a little girl, I always dreamed of my prince charming and how one day he would come sweep me off my feet and I would live happily ever after. David is that prince I have always longed for. He plays the sax which is one of my favorite instruments and he writes poetry. The words he writes to me reach out and touch the very core of my heart, tears swell in my eyes,
and I feel I have known this man forever. The one thing that makes me know he is the one is when I checked his profile out and saw his pictures, his eyes spoke to my heart. My heart instantly knew this man, the prince in my dreams finally was given a face. I am no newbie to the game as I am 48 years old and the mother of 3. I have always been a romantic and a believer in love at first site. I hope David and I spend our forever together. We wish all of you on this site the same success.
danurse_1 & Hardsigmaman
Fredrick and I were in the chat room at the same time. I said hello to him and then that is all it took. We were in a IS Instant Message conversation for 4 hours or so, then we switched to yahoo messenger, then to the phone. Our first meeting lasted 18 hours. On day two, we both had our heads spinning and could not believe that we met. Since our first talk, we have talked everyday since. He is a dream come true. We are planning a trip so we can meet in person. Deep down in my heart, I know he is the one and he feels the same way about me.
I never thought that I would meet a woman as special as the one I met on IS. She is beautiful and smart. She is strong and funny. She is a true "Texas Spitfire". I have never been this happy before. It took me 39 years, but fate has brought me to my one true love, I think. When she smiles at me, I feel like the whole world is open to me. When she kisses me, I can feel it an hour later. I love to listen to her talk. I live to hear her laugh. I believe that fate brought me to this site. It brought me to her. I will always be grateful for that.
I know that all of the success stories posted are about successful romances, but what about the lasting friendships that have also been made on this site.
I joined this site in February of 2006 and in May of 2006 I attended my first "mixer" in Chicago where I met Rblue and we have been great friends ever since. In February of 2007 we went to Las Vegas and met Sexyblonde4u2ee.
I live in Toronto, Rblue lives in Vancouver, and Sexyblonde4u2see is in Rhode Island, but we do our best to get together twice a year...and usually try to plan a mixer around it. We talk on the phone, exchange emails, and know all about each other's lives.
These are 2 women I'm proud to call my friends. Who would have ever thought you could find such great friendships on a dating site!
greekprinzess, Rblue, & Sexyblonde4u2see
Well, it has been about 3 years ago when I joined this site. It only took about a month or 2 and then I met "the one." A little under 2 years after meeting, we married.
I am very happily married to jch4661! I am American and Janet is Canadian! Our lives have changed and it has just been awesome!
We never had the opportunity to thank Interracial Singles. Thank you for operating a clean and mature sight and providing a tool where dreams can really come true...of course, God is the grand orchestrator.
Roy & Janet
Maxroi & jch4661
I joined this site thinking that I was looking for friends and penpals...I live in the middle of the Pacific Ocean! How realistic is a long distance relationship when THAT kind of distance is involved? Robert sent me a note and we began e-mailing in early October. He said friendship sounded fine, because he knew he wouldn't be flying across the country to see someone.
To our surprise, we are in a committed relationship with plans for the future together.
We made wonderful discoveries early on regarding each others humor, intelligence, values, and the attraction that we have for each other.
But what has been such an advantage in this long distance relationship, is the way it emphasizes communication. When we asked each other questions, each of us answered with complete integrity and that is a pattern that we have continued for 8 months now. I believe it is the basis for our strength, as we have developed a level of trust that I have never experienced before.
By Thanksgiving, I knew that I had to meet this man as we had reached a level of intimacy that seemed at odds with the fact that I had never even SEEN him! He offered to come to Hawaii to meet me, help me go to Detroit to meet him, or meet half way in between. I wanted to learn something about his life, so I opted for to spend some time during Christmas with him. During that visit, we both realized how serious this was for each of us and in early spring, he came to Hawaii to visit me.
We've had a few challenges, but we both realize that the way through them is to go deep and respond with complete openness and integrity. It's been challenging on a few issues, but the outcome is always a higher level of closeness and commitment. Pretty amazing!
We talk every evening and text throughout the day. We have not run out of things to talk about and I haven't felt bored once. I will be spending the summer with him and we are talking about how to combine our lives.
Good luck! I wish all of you the joy that I have found.
I truly believe that everything happens for a reason, predestination and universal causal relationships. I was on a few dating sights quite a few years ago. I Chatted with a few interesting people along with the not so nice booty call looking individuals. It was quite frustrating. Needless to say, I had deleted my profiles. However, I met two individuals, one of which has been a dear friend now for years and the other changed my life in many different ways. But I swore I would never make another profile on a dating site again. It's been years.
Then I checked my mail a few weeks ago and found an ad for Interracial Singles. I was about to delete it and said,"what the hey." I created a profile. I was contacted my many gentleman and I am impressed that they composed themselves very well. To them, I say thank you. But the first day I created my profile, I did a quick glance through and found someone quite attractive in many ways (he was also considered a 93% match according to IR). We continued to send each other smiles and such, but within a few days it became quite frustrating (we were both free subscribers and could not contact each other). Apparently, at the same time, he was also confronted with the frustration and we both broke down to become a member to talk with each other. We immediately hit it off.
We exchanged emails, phone numbers, set up a date midweek, then the following Friday night, and again Sunday afternoon. This man is such a sweetheart. He has called me everyday since we exchanged phone numbers! But the best is yet to come!
Recall that I stated I believe in everything happens for a reason? He has the same beliefs, he works in the field I am currently studying, we have a lot of the same tastes, habits, and even think alike; it is almost scary! But I'm not running!
Perhaps there will be more to come. If there is...then i will print our ID's here. In the meantime, thank you Interracial Singles, for helping me to believe again...and to be proven wrong (that there really are good men out there, and he's been hiding in my back yard!).
I am happy to announce to you that as of today, I am canceling my membership on Interracial Singles because I have met a wonderful woman through using this service. I've only been a member of Interracial Singles for about one month, but in that short amount of time, to my surprise, I've met the woman of my dreams. She is beautiful, intelligent, charming, and sweet. When I talk to her on the phone or see her in person, she always makes me feel special and smart. What excites me the most is that she highly values biblical ethics, as do I. She's the first woman I've met in a long time who encourages me and admires me because of my Christian faith. Her most attractive quality is her heart of gold. Though she is quite beautiful physically, her tender heart of gold makes her beautiful to such an extent that I cannot find the words to describe it. Her sweet spirit emanated from every email and card that she sent me. She soon initiated verbal communication by sending me her phone number in an email. When I called her, I heard the voice of an angel say “Hello”. She has the sweetest sounding voice I've ever heard. I was pleased and amazed at how forthright and honest she was about sharing her life with me. She challenged me to examine myself and my intentions. I quickly realized that if I wanted to make a sincere go of it with her, that I'd have to “come correct”. One of the things I was hesitant to talk about initially was my Christian faith. I feared that it might be a turn-off; it was in the past for others. When she gravitated closer to me because of my faith, I was very pleased. After overcoming that hurdle we were “off to the races”. Many nights we've talked on the phone until the wee hours of the morning. I feel like a teenager in love for the first time—again. A few days ago, I mustered the courage to tell her that I love her. She said that she loves me too! When I'm with her, time goes
by too fast. When I'm away from her, time goes by too slow. To quote R. Kelly, she is my “homie, lover, friend”. It may seem risky or strange to some of you reading this letter, that two people could fall in love so quickly, but when you know what you want and you find it, you just go for it. She and I were looking for each other. Thanks to Interracial Singles, we found each other.
viclochausen25 & Etinahui
At the moment in time that I was getting ready to erase myself from this site because I was so sick and tired of this thing called "the dating game", a SMILE came across my screen and this man Art has changed my life.
From the very first Smile, there has been
communication via emails, IM's, and phone calls. Not one single day goes by that we don't think of one another. We talk for hours on the phone about anything and everything and learn new and exciting information to build a future we both are looking forward to. I want to thank IS for bringing Art into my life, for he is the ONE that makes me believe there is "a reason to breathe" again.
Sorry ladies this one is TAKEN :)
unluckyinlove2006 & Art4real