I found one
Immediately after joining I met a large number of women who were what could be called "marriage material" or women that I would want to date. I began dating a number of them. I found one in particular with whom I have become very serious. I remain close friends with many of the others.
My approach was to move quickly to a casual meeting in a public place. I am 6'4" tall and weigh 250 pounds so the public place approach was definitely for the females. In any event I felt that a face to face meeting was the most important thing. The dates were fun -- comedy clubs; places with nice views; dancing; etc.
If I was not serious I would definitely stay with the site just to chat with my friends.
In the event things ultimately do not progress to marriage I will definitely come back.
Thank You
rayz